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Bondage Tutorials, and My Inappropriate Fantasy
The BDM runs bondage tutorials once or twice a year, and they’re always very fun. This picture was taken at one of them. Everyone who comes to the tutorial gets to choose a bondage/lighting concept that they’d like to try and the BDM does his best to make that come about, even if the concept in question involves difficult, slidy ribbon-bondage.
Obviously, I also do my best to help. At the last tutorial, someone had the EXTRAORDINARY idea of putting me in a metal strappado, in globe cuffs. And very uncomfortable (but strangely interesting) it was.
So I’m very much looking forward to the next Restrained Elegance tutorial. Especially because the only person who’s definitely coming to it so far is my good friend Henry Higgins (who, for reasons of excessive stupidity, I seem unable to link to – look at my Friends List instead – sorry!). This is exciting for me because his ideas tend to be more than slightly CP orientated. Mmmm, there has never been spanking related activity at the tutorial before, but now I’m rather hoping that other people who also like spanking-with-their-bondage might come along. In my new fantasy, someone will ask the BDM to demonstrate every single implement that we own on me. Which would take ages, and probably not be particularly instructive. But I’m enjoying thinking about it.
So if that’s you, please come! And if Henry is reading this, please don’t disappoint me by having a concept which is all about lighting and nothing else. Urgh! I’m extremely interested in spanking and bondage, but not so fascinated by f-stops, honeycombs and barn-doors. If that’s what they’re called.
I really like being at the mercy of other people’s BDSM ideas. Especially when they sound ever-so-slightly too difficult and painful to actually cope with…..
This is a very weird post. Sorry everyone – I’m recovering from a general anaesthetic and everything seems a bit wobbly and unreal. But I do have time off as a result! I’ll read it again when the drugs have worn off. I just have a strange desire to communicate…..
Entrepraneur (SP?)
The reason, dear people, that I’m blogging this week is because I’m at home, and therefore have time.
And the reason I’m at home, is because of this;-
I haven’t paid an awful lot of attention to Clips4Sale before, but it seemed like a good place to do a bit more publicity for http://www.restrainedelegance.com/ so I’m spending the week putting videos up, so people who don’t want to join a membership site can still see all the bondage, bastinado and spanking that we’ve been doing.
And I kind of hope that because we’re called studio/23235, that maybe I can be called slave/23235. Which would be hot. Mmmmm.
Because doing data entry is NOT particularly hot, and that’s basically what this job is. But I’m entertaining myself by writing descriptions of me and my model friends. Everyone is ‘Top International Bondage Superstar’ unless they’re ‘Busty Blonde British Fetish Model’ and I’m beginning to feel like a sleazy newspaper editor.
But it’s very lovely to watch through old videos I made with the BDM before he even knew he WAS the BDM, and I’ve been checking that I didn’t look thinner 3 years ago. This is not what I’m actually meant to be doing.
Back to work!
A/a
Motivation, Gingerbread and Caning
Happy New Year, everyone! I got back from my world tour weeks and weeks ago, so I do apologise for not posting any news about it; I’d just rather over-ambitiously booked lots of shoots in Europe up until Christmas, so I’m only just properly home and organising myself. I cleaned the bathroom today, and feel like a proper actual person who lives in an actual house again. Yay!
Just before Christmas, my car was broken into just outside Bradford. This made me very cross because;-
1) Mr Burglar stole my Satnav, so I became instantly lost on the way to my hotel.
2) Mr Burglar also stole my purse, drivers’ licence and a week’s worth of modelling fees (obviously, none of these things should have been in my car, but I’m not awfully good at thinking)
3) I actually SAW, and SMILED AT Mr Bloody Burglar while I was on my way into the supermarket (without my purse, naturally). Which really makes me think chivalry is dead. Which makes me sad as well as cross.
4) I had to drive round (in the snow) for 2 hours, with no passenger-side window, searching for my hotel. During which time, Mr Burglar who doesn’t really deserve to be called Mr, had probably found his way home (with my Satnav) and was gorging on pizza or similar (with my money).
Brrrrr! But all is well now, for the following reasons (oh, dear, I do love lists);-
1) A lovely Ariel Anderssen fan (who I think would prefer to be anonymous, so I won’t say who for now) sent me a super-dooper cake mixer for Christmas. I love it so very much, and have made a giant trifle with it. Mmmmmm. I don’t think it’s actually specifically a cake mixer, but that’s all I intend to use it for….
2) The BDM gave me a 100 stroke caning on Boxing Day, which we hardly ever get to do because of marks. Hooray!
3) Strictly Come Spanking is up at http://www.northernspanking.com/ And It just makes me so happy. That’s all.
4) I’ve got lots of spanking and bondage shoots already booked for this year! So I’ll post pictures as and when they arrive. Oh, I just realised I forgot to put a picture on this post. Hmmm, shall rummage round and see if I can find an appropriate one.
Oh, I also remembered I haven’t explained why ‘gingerbread’ is in the title of this post. It is because I was about to go and make some (with the new cake-mixer) when I decided I should be self-disciplined and post on my blog before allowing myself to do anything so frivolous. Wheee! I can make gingerbread now!
Happy New Year again, everybody!
A/a xx
Panic! PANIC!
Hello! I’m briefly posting, even though I’m not home yet, and this is a bit of a tricky operation (because I’ve never really got it together enough to travel with a laptop or similar). I am in Los Angeles, and am about to go to bed.
And tomorrow, I am shooting with Dallas of http://www.dallasspankshard.com
And OH, LORDY, I am scared! I really like Dallas, and his lovely partner, Sabrina; but after 6 weeks of touring, and looking forward to the kinky end of my trip (shoots with American Damsels, Bedroom Bondage, Good Spanking and Dallas on my last three days), I have now become terrified.
The reason for this is that today, my shoot with the beautiful, and really not-at-all-excessively-severe Chelsea Pfeiffer (http://www.goodspanking.com) reminded me that spanking really, definitely does hurt. I’ve had 6 weeks of happily fantasising about all the nice feelings associated with the BDSM that I’m missing while I’m away, and now I’ve suddenly remembered, with less than 24 hours to go, that I’m actually very scared of Dallas and his implements. Duh!
I suppose I can see that I might just about survive the experience (MAYBE, if I’m very lucky) but I doubt that I’ll manage it in the super-brave, SAS-style manner that I like to imagine myself adopting. So when I’m home (IF I’m alive after all the wooden paddles and giant leather straps) I shall post some pictures so that you can assess whether I was brave. Or not.
And if I don’t survive it, then thank you Chelsea for at least preparing me. And for shooting a lovely video with me (which I shall also publicise properly when I’m home)
Wah. PANIC!
Thanks for reading.
A/a xx