Motivation, Gingerbread and Caning

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Happy New Year, everyone! I got back from my world tour weeks and weeks ago, so I do apologise for not posting any news about it; I’d just rather over-ambitiously booked lots of shoots in Europe up until Christmas, so I’m only just properly home and organising myself. I cleaned the bathroom today, and feel like a proper actual person who lives in an actual house again. Yay!

Just before Christmas, my car was broken into just outside Bradford. This made me very cross because;-

1) Mr Burglar stole my Satnav, so I became instantly lost on the way to my hotel.

2) Mr Burglar also stole my purse, drivers’ licence and a week’s worth of modelling fees (obviously, none of these things should have been in my car, but I’m not awfully good at thinking)

3) I actually SAW, and SMILED AT Mr Bloody Burglar while I was on my way into the supermarket (without my purse, naturally). Which really makes me think chivalry is dead. Which makes me sad as well as cross.

4) I had to drive round (in the snow) for 2 hours, with no passenger-side window, searching for my hotel. During which time, Mr Burglar who doesn’t really deserve to be called Mr, had probably found his way home (with my Satnav) and was gorging on pizza or similar (with my money).

Brrrrr! But all is well now, for the following reasons (oh, dear, I do love lists);-

1) A lovely Ariel Anderssen fan (who I think would prefer to be anonymous, so I won’t say who for now) sent me a super-dooper cake mixer for Christmas. I love it so very much, and have made a giant trifle with it. Mmmmmm. I don’t think it’s actually specifically a cake mixer, but that’s all I intend to use it for….

2) The BDM gave me a 100 stroke caning on Boxing Day, which we hardly ever get to do because of marks. Hooray!

3) Strictly Come Spanking is up at http://www.northernspanking.com/ And It just makes me so happy. That’s all.

4) I’ve got lots of spanking and bondage shoots already booked for this year! So I’ll post pictures as and when they arrive. Oh, I just realised I forgot to put a picture on this post. Hmmm, shall rummage round and see if I can find an appropriate one.

Oh, I also remembered I haven’t explained why ‘gingerbread’ is in the title of this post. It is because I was about to go and make some (with the new cake-mixer) when I decided I should be self-disciplined and post on my blog before allowing myself to do anything so frivolous. Wheee! I can make gingerbread now!

Happy New Year again, everybody!

A/a xx

Panic! PANIC!

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Hello! I’m briefly posting, even though I’m not home yet, and this is a bit of a tricky operation (because I’ve never really got it together enough to travel with a laptop or similar). I am in Los Angeles, and am about to go to bed.

And tomorrow, I am shooting with Dallas of http://www.dallasspankshard.com

And OH, LORDY, I am scared! I really like Dallas, and his lovely partner, Sabrina; but after 6 weeks of touring, and looking forward to the kinky end of my trip (shoots with American Damsels, Bedroom Bondage, Good Spanking and Dallas on my last three days), I have now become terrified.

The reason for this is that today, my shoot with the beautiful, and really not-at-all-excessively-severe Chelsea Pfeiffer (http://www.goodspanking.com) reminded me that spanking really, definitely does hurt. I’ve had 6 weeks of happily fantasising about all the nice feelings associated with the BDSM that I’m missing while I’m away, and now I’ve suddenly remembered, with less than 24 hours to go, that I’m actually very scared of Dallas and his implements. Duh!

I suppose I can see that I might just about survive the experience (MAYBE, if I’m very lucky) but I doubt that I’ll manage it in the super-brave, SAS-style manner that I like to imagine myself adopting. So when I’m home (IF I’m alive after all the wooden paddles and giant leather straps) I shall post some pictures so that you can assess whether I was brave. Or not.

And if I don’t survive it, then thank you Chelsea for at least preparing me. And for shooting a lovely video with me (which I shall also publicise properly when I’m home)

Wah. PANIC!

Thanks for reading.

A/a xx

In her Absence

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Hello everyone. This is the BDM speaking. Ariel/Amelia is not here at the moment- she’s on a world tour, currently working her way around Australia before moving on to New Zealand. She begged and pleaded for me to post on her blog while she was away.

This is a bit of a tall order as I am neither as witty, as amusing, as blonde nor indeed as tall as she.
And the promised “I’ll email you photos of me from all around the world” have, needless to say, not been submitted. So you won’t be seeing any photos of her on tour just yet and I’ll have to make do with some of the many shots we’ve taken for our website at Restrained Elegance this year.
She also assured me in her most unreasonably wheedling and confident tone just before she left that I could write all about how lovely she was and living with her was like living with the Queen of Love of the World and that she was lovely! LOVELY! LOVEEEELY!!!
I suspect this was a ploy to undermine my dom-ly authority and make me look like a soppy gushing fool in public 🙂 So I will not be falling for that.
I will say this: living with an inventive, imaginative, occasionally infuriating, gorgeous six-foot blue eyed blonde supermodel with fabulous legs that go on forever (with gorgeous bare feet- forgive me for mentioning, but I do have quite the foot fetish) who is a naturist by inclination, and a submissive masochist by deepest nature with an insatiable appetite for being spanked, caned, dominated and tied up… there’s never a dull moment!
Except when she goes away on a six week world tour, of course, at which point there are quite a few dull moments in which to really miss her. All very healthy for the relationship I’m sure, and of course I knew these long trips were part of her job. But I’d like Ariel the live-in slave-girl back pretty damn soon! :-0
Although Amelia-Jane could possibly stay away a little longer, until Ariel and I have got nicely re-acquainted. I don’t really want to have to spank her in the arrivals hall at Heathrow for throwing a tantrum.
(That sounds super-hot, but there are a few too many real-life-machine-gun toting guards around for my liking. Maybe I’ll just make her take her shoes off, walk barefoot to the carpark and do positions training on the concrete floor before getting into the car. The boot of the car, to be taken home in chains. Naturally.)
I’m sure she’ll have done just dozens of things she needs to be punished for by now. Not sending photos, for one… at least we did a full day bastinado video shoot for the site just before she left, certainly giving me some very hot memories to get by on until she gets home!
And now I can see that her cunning plan has worked: I do sound like a soppy gushing fool in public. Oh well, roll on the end of the trip and she can tell you all about it herself!

The BDM

Surprised into Domming!

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Hello to all you kind people who read my blog. While I was walking around Tesco today I was wondering about how BDSM is seen outside of our lovely kinky internet world. The reason I was thinking this is because a very polite man had tried to ask me out while I was in the (extraordinarily cheap) ladies’ shoes aisle. I told him I had a boyfriend and off he went (still politely).

I wondered what would have happened if I’d announced that I had a MASTER instead of a boyfriend. First of all I imagined it would sound rather impressive; then with a rather sad, back-to-earth bump, it occurred to me that most people would think it was just a bit weird and possibly dysfunctional. All of which made me appreciate the kinky blog-network even more than usual. So thank you all for being part of it by reading spanking models’ blogs.

Hmmm, this is not what I was actually planning to talk about. I actually wanted to talk about an audition I had on Saturday.

I was terribly excited to be contacted about playing the role of a super-villain in a movie. I think I got offered an audition because they need someone who’s over 6ft with fight training, and while there are lots of men who’d fit that bill, they need a girl. Hooray! I thought. And off I trotted to Knightsbridge, wearing my highest heels and a mini-skirt. This was in order to fit the sketch they’d sent me – this is certainly not how I’d choose to dress normally. I think I scared a lady coming out of Starbucks….

And somehow, it hadn’t occurred to me that they’d want an exhibition of some aggression. The script required me to strangle a poor chap to death (not for real, please don’t worry – I don’t think it was that kind of movie…) This is something I suppose I was once quite comfortable with a few years ago when I used to do mainstream acting work and fight choreography. But having been happily concentrating on being sub for the last couple of years – eurgh! It felt awful.

Added to the horror was the fact that my ‘victim’ was one of the production staff. The weird power dynamic involved in ‘strangling’ someone you’re hoping will be your future employer is altogether uncomfortable, and probably best avoided. I’m still shuddering now….. But hooray, I managed to get through it without confessing that I’d rather switch roles, please.

All of which reminds me that I meant to post the YouTube link to one of my videos from my friends at http://www.fetisheyes.com Here it is – I hope you enjoy watching me having a go at being a little bit dom – it’s always more comfortable if I only have to be nasty to the camera….

http://youtube.com/watch?v=OpyW88x10Ys

I’m off on a world tour from next week onwards, so I’ll try to post, but it might be a bit tricky. I’m back in November; have a great Autumn everybody, and thanks as always for reading 🙂

A/a