Author Archives: Hywel

About Hywel

Particle physicist turned fetish photographer, producer and director. I run http://www.restrainedelegance.com and http://www.elegancestudios.com together with my wife, who is variously known as Ariel Anderssen or Amelia Jane Rutherford, depending on whether she's getting tied up or spanked at the time.

Silk Soles changes

Hi Everyone

Many thanks to everyone who commented, tweeted or filled in the recent survey I did for SilkSoles.com. I’ve had more time to digest the results and cogitate about what I should be doing to diversify my business- see previous blog post for the thoughts that started this off.

It’s a little over two years since I relaunched SilkSoles, and for most of that time it has been a lot of fun. But the pressure of the update schedule means Silk Soles now feels like unpaid work rather than the fun artistic project it once was and should be. I’ve also been struggling to coming up with fresh ideas for new films (although not for stills sets).

After a more sober assessment of the number of Hywel-hours in the week, I need to find a non-website, non-kinky sideline for my business in case censorship closes us down. Something has to give, and my gut feeling is that Silk Soles videos are the place where the axe has to fall. I can’t keep working long unpaid hours to keep up and they are a LOT of work, for both Ariel (who does most of the video editing) and me.

Regular Video Updates will stop at the start of June

Regular video updates will stop on Silk Soles at the start of June. You will get the video updates for more than a month, as promised, so you won’t be missing out on updates I promised you if you signed up today. Video updates will be irregular, as inspiration strikes, after that. There will not be a regular video update schedule.

Stills updates will continue as we have more stills on disk, and they are easier to shoot. I’ll keep them coming at one a week until we’ve got through what we’ve already shot, which will take us at least until the end of the year. And as long as the sales stay OK we’ll keep shooting more stills sets for you too.

Silk Soles will be updated with videos on an irregular basis as and when the whim takes us to shoot something for it rather than on a regular update schedule. We’ve still got ideas we want to shoot, films in the pipeline… taking away the pressure to make 52 films a year will let us do a much better job of the ones we DO decide to make.

Memberships

Your current membership will not be affected. You are welcome to stay on the recurring billing you have now if you want to access the site continuously of course but be aware that the regular video updates will stop in June. Regular weekly stills updates will continue for now, and I will give at least one month’s notice if/when that changes.

I will revise the preview tour information on the site to this effect over the next few days.

I’ll also email all subscribers to explain the position so everyone has the chance to cancel in good time for the end of the weekly video updates if that’s their preference.

We’ve got around 20 stills sets on disk, and another 20 from Russian photographer Alexander Lightspear, and several sets planned for the next few shoots. So the weekly stills updates will continue at least until the end of the year, hopefully longer depending on how membership figures go, how inspired we are at shoots, and how much fun we’re having. I’ve got dozens of ideas I want to shoot!

I hope you’ll understand my reasons for making this change. I’ve been feeling under a lot of pressure since the regulations came in in December and something has to give.

Custom Foot Videos

We will still be shooting custom foot fetish videos as well as all our other custom video options- see here for details. So if you’d like to get exactly the film you want, we will make it for you!

Silk Soles Members’ Questionnaire

I’ve just put up a survey for SilkSoles.com members (and ex-members, if you are reading this!) here:

https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JVPN8C8

If you have a few minutes to fill it in, it would be very much appreciated. This blog post explains why.

Art And Business

I’m lucky enough to be making a living doing what I love- photographic art featuring beautiful women, barefoot (for SilkSoles.com) or barefoot and in bondage (for RestrainedElegance.com). Most of the time, the business and artistic sides bump along quite happily.

I’m just about a good enough artist to make stuff which people want to buy. I suck at promotion and sales and I’m no good at chasing the market- I only shoot stuff that means something to me, stuff that I want to see, stuff that I’d be buying and collecting if someone else was shooting it.

If enough people like it and buy it, I can keep doing it.

Restrained Elegance is down from its pre-banking-crash highs, but is generating enough profit for me to pay my share of the mortgage, eat and have a bit of cash to invest in new projects.

Silk Soles is breaking even. That’s not too bad considering that I launched it at about the worst time for erotic websites since there was such a thing as a website at all. The membership fees you are kind enough to pay are covering the cost of models to shoot for the site and a bit towards the web hosting costs.

I love shooting for Silk Soles. But with the threat of censorship hitting RE, I’ve got to look at ways to spread my risk a bit in case the hammer falls and I suddenly have to find other ways to pay the bills. It takes me about 40 hours a month, roughly, to run Silk Soles. The question is whether I can afford to keep doing that on a project which is not paying me a penny. It’s quite a lot of work for a part-time job generating zero income, if I’m honest. Maybe I should be looking at putting that time into landscape photography or commercial film making or something.

It’s annoying, because if we do get censored, Silk Soles is pretty safe. It’s so cheery and upbeat that there’s nothing for the censor to object to. But right now it isn’t actually a business, just an unpaid hobby.

One of the people who has already kindly responded to the survey asked why Ariel is in 50% of the sets for Silk Soles. Two reasons:

  1. She’s my wife and my creative partner. She has lots of ideas and we run the site together and we love shooting together. So naturally enough we like shooting Silk Soles ideas together.
  2. Money I pay her for modelling and editing videos for Silk Soles still goes to pay our mortgage, whereas money paid to external contractors (other models) is gone from our household.

SilkSoles can’t afford to hire external models for a higher percentage of the sets right now.

What Can We Do About This

If I was a contestant on The Apprentice, I’d already have been fired for persevering with something that’s not making any profit. Maybe I just have to accept that the market for the sort of elegant barefoot photos and videos I like to see isn’t big enough for me to make a profit. (I’m sure other people- better salespeople- certainly can. I just need to know my limits.)

So one possibility is to stop pretending Silk Soles is a business. The dividing line for me is a regular update schedule. If I no longer deliver regular updates, stop selling recurring subscriptions, keep the site up as an archive and add new sets when the whim to shoot happened it would be significantly less pressure, and the sets we shoot would probably end up smaller in number but higher in inspiration. That’s quite appealing.

But I’d like to explore other options first.

The most obvious is to find more members. If we could find an extra 30 people a month, it would pay me minimum wage- not great, but clearly more sustainable. I’m going to have a go, but I know I’m not very good at the promotion parts especially.

The purpose of the questionnaire was to see if there were other possibilities.

On the basis of the replies so far (thank you!) I can draw a few tentative conclusions.

  1. Most people who replied think the site meets their needs extremely well or very well. That’s nice- at least people aren’t joining and thinking “what is this shit?” and leaving disappointed.
  2. Nearly everyone likes stills and videos both. Only one person so far prefers stills. This is very interesting, but shuts off one possibility I was thinking of. Videos are MUCH more time and labour intensive to shoot, edit and produce and are therefore more expensive too. If most people had preferred the stills, I could have backed down the number of video updates. It doesn’t look like that’s going to fly.
  3. A couple of people would like more explicit nudity, but it’s not the majority, and some people prefer clothed stuff. That’s good- I’m not particularly good at shooting more hardcore material.
  4. The level of foot closeups is at least approximately OK. (One person wanted more, one person wanted less). Not a major complaint, by the looks of it.
  5. Everyone thinks Silk Soles is good value for money. Bizarrely, that means I should put the prices up. I’m underselling. It won’t affect current members- so now is a good time to sign up for a recurring subscription! We’ll see what it does to sales but it looks like especially the one-month non-recurring prices need to go up.
  6. The site usability seems to be OK, with most people finding what they want easily. Ditto they are happy with the visual appeal.

What To Do?

So what to do? Price rise, publicity push, bit more variety of models and storylines (which was in the plan for the next couple of months’ shoots anyway). Get back up to say six months of material of the site ready to go. See if we can get more people through the door, and see if higher prices on the non-recurring membership especially can edge us into a decent profit. Review at the end of the year. Sorted.

Many thanks to people for their kind comments and for filling in the survey!

And just to reassure you- whatever happens to Silk Soles I will keep you informed, and you WILL get the updates we’ve promised for the duration of your subscription. They’re already shot and edited at least one month in advance, always.

Moral Dilemma

UPDATE: Many thanks to everyone who has kindly offered advice on my silly little internal debate. After discussion it has been jointly decided that the budget just won’t stand for one performer to be paid so highly.

We are now actively looking for another performer to fill the role, and who will be paid the same as everyone else. Which makes me much happier.

Sablesword hit the nail on the head for me by pointing out that it was not in fact a moral dilemma: there’s nothing immoral about paying the market rate for something. It’s not a moral issue at all. So it would have been perfectly OK to go ahead.

Nonetheless I’m happier to be able to continue the idyllic, idealistic, utopian nonsense we’ve built with RE over the years for just a little longer. I LIKE working in a collegiate, partnership-of-equals way. And that’s fine, it’s just my personal preference.

In case you hadn’t guessed, yes, I am naive and a bit of a dreamer as well as being a scientist, photographer and dominant. I like it that way.

Original Post:

Now there’s a thing.

I’m on the verge of turning down a project because of moral scruples.

Without wishing to go into details, the project involves casting multiple actors who will all be on set all the time for the duration of the film. The thing is, one person is likely to be paid much more than the others.

I realise there are legitimate reasons why this is so- that person is a bit higher profile.

This situation has pertained in previous projects, for sure.

But I was never the producer- I was never responsible for organising a shoot under those conditions, and for paying out the money to people knowing that one person was going to be getting significantly more cash for doing almost exactly the same job.

Furthermore, this is my “me” work- it’s fetish-related, not a mainstream film, which shouldn’t make a difference but somehow does. I don’t feel like the hired hand, even though technically speaking I totally am, I’m not paying the bills but it still feels too personal for me to be comfortable with this.

I know stars are paid more money. I know a skilled carpenter can charge more per hour than an apprentice, and think it is right that they should do so.

And yet- I just don’t know if I want to put myself in the position of knowingly paying people radically different amounts for doing the same job on set with me.

The pragmatic side of me says “Oh for the love of God, Hywel, it’s a paying job, it is the customer’s call anyway as they are paying for it all, get over yourself”.

But this little voice inside is screaming at me that this is wrong, and I don’t want to do it. Maybe I’d rather retain the “Fair Trade” stamp in my head and pass up the opportunity.

I know it is naive and stupid. But I’m really struggling.

What should I do?

Models for Custom Shoots

Thought I’d let you know of a few models we have working with us soon in case anyone wanted a custom video or photoset shot with them while they are here.

We are due to work with:

Helen Stephens

Helen Stephens

Helen Stephens

Chloe Toy

Chloe Toy

Chloe Toy

Sapphire Blue

Sapphire Blue

Sapphire Blue

 

We’re planning shoots with Sammie B, Hannah Claydon, Tillie, Janey, Penny Lee, Natalia Forrest and Sophia Smith soon too. And of course the Restrained Elegance resident slavegirl Ariel Anderssen is always keen to shoot your ideas any time!

(We’re also working with lots of new models but I don’t think it is fair to launch them into a custom shoot for their first time working with us!)

So if you are interested in having us bring your fantasies to life with one of these lovely ladies, please drop me a line on webmaster@restrainedelegance.com.

Bondage Photography Tutorial 16th May- one space left!

UPDATE: The event is now full. Wow, that didn’t take long. Please drop me a line if you’d like to go on the waiting list, or if you’d like us to arrange a tutorial for you at a later date.

We are running a bondage photography tutorial at our studio in Welshpool on Saturday 16th May.

We’ll be covering the whole process of taking bondage photos beautifully and safely, so if you’d like to learn about studio lighting, camera settings and bondage rigging, why not come along?

You’ll be learning from professional bondage photographer Hywel Phillips and bondage model and rigger Ariel Anderssen, the people behind RestrainedElegance.com

email webmaster@restrainedelegance.com to reserve your place.

Full details: Bondage Photography Tutorials Information